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CS: As a female companion, you are in a unique situation to where your talent to read, gauge and understand men in a way that is deeply revealing, intimate and intuitive still remains a mystery to most women. This lack of insight and ability for both sexes to comprehend each other at times can be frustrating. In your opinion, what are the core differences between men and women? If you were to give one piece of insight that most women don't know about men and should, what would it be? What is one strong point that men should know about women and often don't realize?

AT: Men and women ARE different—the only dispute is how. I suppose certain traits have been regarded as “masculine,” others as “feminine.” This kind of dichotomy has, for better or worse, led us to view each other through polarized thinking. The problem with dwelling on gender-different “truths” is that they can become self-fulfilling prophecies, a oppressive straitjacket forcing men and women into certain roles in life. At times, I feel more “male” or “female;” don’t you? If you’re ALL male, or ALL female, I believe there’s something seriously wrong with you. So in fact, I’d say that the core differences are largely anatomical, rather than psychological. And the one thing the members of each sex don’t know about the opposite sex, and should realize, is that we’re more alike than we know! BOTH genders have the capacity for intimacy, aggression, focus, indifferences, discussion, sexual jealousy, sadism, sensitivity, and a host of other supposedly gender-dependent traits.

CS: When a man is going to see a female companion for the first time, usually there are various emotions prior to the meeting such as excitement, exhilaration, and perhaps also anxiety and nervousness. First impressions are everything, and every lady has had an experience where a gesture, comment, or unintended approach killed the moment for them and things get off on a rocky start. Speaking only about those clients who have said or done something unintentionally, what are some tips they should know on how to approach ladies to begin with a comfort level and pleasant ambience from the start? What are some 'do's and 'do not's on a first date?

AT: Your aims here are to promote your chosen escort’s trust, excitement, eager anticipation, imagination, reassurance that your own behavior is acceptable, and your arousal. What you want to prevent is scaring your chosen escort, hurting or threatening her, or losing control of yourself. She should be able to expect you to see her as a separate, vulnerable human being, that you will care about her feelings, that you will be truthful, and that you will be laid back and try to have fun. Establish your own trustworthiness in the early days of the relationship through emails and phone calls. Let her see you as a real person, so be yourself! The more you open up, the more secure she will feel. Think “honest” to yourself; in order for someone (an escort or any other human you deal with, in any capacity) to find you reliable, you actually must BE reliable. Go into the first date slowly and casually…this is an audition for both of you, truly! Try to give off confidence and remain calm, and focus on the fun you’ll both be having. Enjoy your chosen escort and yourself, and above all, relax! Do’s: pretty specific—I suggest you go with the flow, as appointments are as unique as humans themselves, and are tough for me to characterize. In short, the “dos” vary widely! In essence, though, it’s about having fun. Put your best foot forward, as they say. Obviously, handle business ethically (that should go without saying, I hope!). Don’t’s: do not disregard your chosen escort’s safety, feelings, physical or emotional health. Do not be dishonest with respect to business, obviously.

CS: How do you feel the escort industry as a whole has changed in the past five years? Where do you see the industry in five years and what changes or improvements do you predict?

AT: Over the last 5 years, the average woman who wants to become an escort has been able to easily enter this business, and the average client who seeks an escort can more easily procure that which he desires. The Internet has lowered barriers to entry and secrecy of access, and therefore I believe the escort industry is now healthier, safer, more fun, and higher-quality than ever, sadly there are parties who will always seek to destroy the safe existence of the world’s oldest commercial transaction. The easy access of video pornography, combined with the advent of contraception and subsequent decline of a double-standard associated with promiscuity in the genders, renders many attractive young women more sexually liberated than ever before. Do more liberated single women render escorts redundant? Perhaps—indeed, the percentages of men who visit escorts is lower than ever before, and the quality of escorts is higher than ever (truly, to make a great deal of money an escort now has to essentially look like a model and behave like a video star). The demand for services may be diminishing, but at the level of top quality (hard-to-find younger, more beautiful, and more talented escorts), there is still demand. I see the next 5 years continuing this trend, with the increased competition in the escort business resulting in the inability of lesser-quality escorts to make much of a living, with demand remaining healthy for escorts who are of truly superior quality. In a sense, this is good for the client—only those escorts who can excel in this profession will remain successful.

CS: After considering this for a moment, are there any experiences that come to mind that have been life-changing for you while working as a companion? What have you learned? What mistakes have you made that others should know?

As an escort, I have learned a great deal about running a small business, and of course a great deal about catering to affluent gentlemen. I have traveled the world, enjoyed amazing dinners/hotels/vacations, and also learned a great deal about myself, my desires, and my sensuality. Mistakes? Sure—I’ve met people with whom I was less-than-compatible (happens to us all), and I’ve made customer-service and general business errors. From my mistakes, other escorts could probably learn the following:

--it’s incredibly important to meet only those with whom you feel compatible—work is more fun when it doesn’t feel like work!
--it’s not wise to compromise your rates, health, terms, or sanity—you don’t do yourself any favors, and in fact don’t curry favor with men—respecting yourself is sexy!
--be reliable, be nice, look good, serve well, and have fun. This is an awesome business if you do it right.

CS: As a successful companion, you have formed many strong bonds and relationships with men who have known you and continued to see you over the years. Are their boundaries that come with such relationships? How do you personally avoid problems in such relationships?

AT: I have known many of my clients for several years. Sure, there are boundaries—I am still an escort and see other men, and these men are in some cases married and/or see other escorts. So while we’re not the property of one another, and in essence the relationships still include “business,” affection runs deeply (at least on my side!) for several of these good friends. In a few cases, we’ve had problems, even fights, but the few men with whom I’m still good friends after all these years, the relationships are truly fantastic. I don’t worry much about problems or boundaries, as in these rare special relationships, things flow quite naturally. The compatibility, with a few of my friends, has been so effortless that it’s the best of both worlds—in fact, I often can’t believe I get paid for what I do! What a riot…when it’s good, it’s good.

CS: As many readers of city-source are very inquisitive about ladies such as you, what makes Amy Taylor tick? What are your passions, desires, and favorite parts of a man that you enjoy? What are your passions and desires outside of escorting?

AT: What makes Amy Taylor tick? Lots of things—laughter, sports, travel, wine, all things marine, my family and friends, excitement about the future and memories of the past. I’ve been blessed, really…I have an amazing life. Unfortunately, I’m driven by many things, not enough by one to settle…indeed, I’m intellectually nomadic. Favorite parts of a man? His eyes, and if he has them, his muscles. Among other things…. My passions and desires outside escorting include my regular job (not as glamorous, but fills the intellectual needs), my pet, my friends and family, and my hobbies (I have too many!). I trust the universe, really…going with the flow through my young adulthood, I’m just having a blast. Perhaps that seems superficial, but I think pleasure is a respectable thing to chase. Voltaire said I have the duty to pursue it…I take that job seriously!